The best thing to do is serch the members profile and see if they are up for a Jam at a specific time. Set it up with them to meet you here. Use their email, greet them or befriend them. Don't be shy, thats what we're all here for. Just make sure to specify a time you can be available to Jam and stay in touch with each other via email or what ever your choice. As the site grows, this problem will disapear.